Should I tell my Chinese girlfriend I love her whether she loves me or not?

by Serge
(Asia)

If ever things don't work out between my Chinese girlfriend and me, is it wise for me to tell her that I will love her regardless if she loves me back or doesn't?

I know that it may be irrational or illogical on my part but that is indeed how I feel, and that love is not really a rational thing. I only know that loving her makes everything worthwhile for me and if she's happy, I'm already happy.

Serge

(This is a follow up question. Read Serge's original question here: Does she really just want to be friends?)


Victoria's Answer:

Hi Serge,

So glad to hear from you again!

Of course you can tell her you would love her regardless if she loves you back or doesn't. To love someone is a happy thing.

Although most of the time we can't get her or his love back, at least when we recall the memories when we are old, we won't feel regret and will feel sweet, for we have loved. And she/he has lived in our memories forever. That will be sweet!

Sure, I do hope you and she can be together. Try your best to persuade her parents and get their approval. If they feel your sincerity and see how much you love their daughter and how you would offer her happiness...I think her parents would be all for it.

Come on! Everything will go to the bright side!







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