Will my Chinese man think I'm another ”loose American girl?”

My Chinese man and I have not spent too much time together intimately before he left, but when we did, I was a little afraid of expressing myself in the bedroom because I didn't want him to think that I was another “loose American girl.”

I am a very affectionate person. Should I just let him take control in that area, or can I be myself?

We do not hold hands out in public (although it didn't seem to bother him to kiss me when sitting in the car).

I'm sure that he would lose respect by family and maybe friends if they know that he is in love with an older black woman. He made the comment that he has never been with a black woman before.

I have so many questions, but do not want to overload all at once. Thanks again for helping me to understand my Chinese man.

Tracy


Victoria's Answer:

Hi Tracy,

As for how to express yourself in the bedroom, don't worry. Just be yourself.

Your Chinese man will be overjoyed with your actions. If you can make some surprise for him, I think he will be even happier with that.

No matter if you are black or white, true love should be respected. There is no need to worry about the color of the skin. He loves you not because of your skin, but because of who you are!

Best regards,







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